Today, I am going to finish up the second half of the men's Top Ten List of what NOT to do in Relationships:
6. Yell at your partner as if you were her father.
every word she says literally. Women, when upset, tend to speak in
absolutes, such as “You NEVER listen to me;” when what she really means
is that you aren’t listening to her at that time.
8. Allow jealousy to erode the trust, love and respect of your relationship.
9. Violate her privacy.
Give these new five behaviors a rest and see what happens. If you need some help to stay on track, enlist the help of a friend who is attempting the do the same things, an accountability partner, if you will. Hire a coach. Create a mastermind group. Just take the time to get the support you need to stay on track even when things get difficult. Let me know how it goes.
If you want to learn more about relationships, check out our Relationships from the Inside Out ebook. It comes with an action book of exercises that can be done separately or as a couple.