Welcome to the Relationship Center

Here at The Relationship Center, it is our mission to help you get along better with the important people in your life, including yourself, at home and at work.
Empowering yourself from the InsideOut by understanding the world from a place where you engage the power of relinquishing your desire to control everything, while focusing inward on what you can do to manage the challenges of your life while steering in the direction you want to go.
Upon opening yourself up to Choice Theory, you can feel empowered by the possibilities. Choice Theory applies to every aspect of your life. It begins as an explanation for all human behavior, then morphs into a lens with which you process the world and then it become the way you life your life to your optimal advantage.

Are You Ready To:

• Get to know yourself better?
• Learn if your actions align with your values?
• Prioritize your needs?
• Pay attention to the relationship you forge with yourself?
• Determine what are your non-negotiables?
• Hold your own compass and find your true path?

You’ll Discover

  • Insights and suggestions gained by surveying happy couples
  • Practical advice from experts
  • Tips for identifying problems
  • A 3-step process for surviving affairs
  • Move beyond “tolerating” differences to appreciating
  • How to meet your partner’s needs and your own at the same time

Create a Diverse Workforce

  • Decrease Gossip in the Workplace
  • Decrease Time Mediating Disputes between Employees
  • Prevent Discrimination Litigation
  • Create a Respectful Workplace for Everyone
  • Improve Employee Morale
  • Reduce Paid Sick Time

Understand Relationships

  • Do relationships often leave you confused?
  • Do you wonder how two people can be on such different pages most of the time?
  • Do you find it challenging to obtain or maintain meaningful relationships?
If you’re like me, you often find yourself wondering why you, and the people around you, do the things they do. Before learning Choice Theory®, I would often just shake my head at some of the things those close to me would do. Then, I learned Choice Theory® and began looking at the choices I was making in relation to the “craziness” around me. That was both frustrating and empowering. I learned that ANYTHING could happen in my life and I could handle it based on what I chose to do or think. It was like I was handed the genie in the lamp and told I could have all my wishes for the rest of my life. Now, don’t get me wrong—“bad things” still happen in my life but with my understanding of Choice Theory®, I can now manage anything life has to throw at me. I feel powerful and free. You too can have that ability. Choice Theory® can help you in every aspect of your life—it becomes the new way you view the world. Learn the concepts of Choice Theory® and see the difference it will make. More information here: bit.ly/3vSRpnS#choicetheory #changeyourlife #counseling ... See MoreSee Less
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Today, 80% of all new books are self published. Do you have a book in you? I frequently run into people who tell me they are writing a book, want to write a book, or have other people telling them they should write a book. The word author comes from the word authority. Writing a book places you as a perceived authority in your field. And that’s a great place to be. Today’s publishing companies are very selective in whose work they publish. Many do not take risks on unknown or first-time authors. And even if you do get a publishing contract, you often lose creative control of your material and will earn a minuscule amount on each book sold. As an independent publishing company, InsideOut Press can help you write your book without those challenges. bit.ly/3lTgiMl#author #publishedauthor #writerworkshop ... See MoreSee Less
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Did you miss this one?Listen to this podcast and learn some key advice for anyone in a relationship. I cover singles, happy couples and people in unhappy relationships. For my book, Secrets of Happy Couples, I interviewed one hundred couples and I share what I learned, along with my key piece of advice for a happy sustainable relationship. Can you guess what it is? Listen here or on your favorite podcast platform. bit.ly/3h9dVBK#loveequalschoices #relationshipexpert #relationshipcoach ... See MoreSee Less
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I really appreciate you and what you are doing for this world. It has truly inspired me. I started Choice Theory thinking that it is just another theory to learn. Instead it has put me on a journey to self discovery and more. It feels like a roller coaster ride and the past 4 days has shown me how to enjoy that ride. It would not have been possible without having gone through a great and empowering training with you.


Relationships are difficult and in those tough times , Kim’s insight and wisdom have helped me to become the parent, husband, and friend that I want to be. It is a blessing to have someone that provides you the balance you need to evolve. I now realize that it’s not about being who “they” want you to be but being the best YOU that you can be…Thanks Kim!


"For me, reading 'Choosing Me Now' was tantamount to spending a much needed weekend with a good friend who had my back. It brought me back to the important stuff with such gentleness and I've left more connected and more on my own side than I've been in a long time. Exactly the kind of friend I needed right now. Thank you Kim!"

Jo Watson, Birmingham, UK

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