Welcome to the Relationship Center

Here at The Relationship Center, it is our mission to help you get along better with the important people in your life, including yourself, at home and at work.
Empowering yourself from the InsideOut by understanding the world from a place where you engage the power of relinquishing your desire to control everything, while focusing inward on what you can do to manage the challenges of your life while steering in the direction you want to go.
Upon opening yourself up to Choice Theory, you can feel empowered by the possibilities. Choice Theory applies to every aspect of your life. It begins as an explanation for all human behavior, then morphs into a lens with which you process the world and then it become the way you life your life to your optimal advantage.

Are You Ready To:

• Get to know yourself better?
• Learn if your actions align with your values?
• Prioritize your needs?
• Pay attention to the relationship you forge with yourself?
• Determine what are your non-negotiables?
• Hold your own compass and find your true path?

You’ll Discover

  • Insights and suggestions gained by surveying happy couples
  • Practical advice from experts
  • Tips for identifying problems
  • A 3-step process for surviving affairs
  • Move beyond “tolerating” differences to appreciating
  • How to meet your partner’s needs and your own at the same time

Create a Diverse Workforce

  • Decrease Gossip in the Workplace
  • Decrease Time Mediating Disputes between Employees
  • Prevent Discrimination Litigation
  • Create a Respectful Workplace for Everyone
  • Improve Employee Morale
  • Reduce Paid Sick Time

Understand Relationships

  • Do relationships often leave you confused?
  • Do you wonder how two people can be on such different pages most of the time?
  • Do you find it challenging to obtain or maintain meaningful relationships?
Counting the days until I get to see my family again. I left PA just after the New Year and I'll be back on April 17. That makes 42 days and counting... I'm looking forward to another Grandma pile up like this one! #familytime ...
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Last chance for this special offer! Our next Mental Freedom Group Coaching, priced at $600, will be held on March 10 from 6 to 8 p.m. central. This includes six sessions and a six-month follow-up. I know people who are reading this who are suffering from something, and you don't know the answer or where to start. It could be loneliness from COVID isolation, a relationship that stresses you out, a job that isn't feeding your soul. Really, it can be anything. You are usually the person who can solve anything, but the solution to this eludes you. Mental Freedom will help -- it has helped many people already before we've even launched the masterclass. If you have been thinking about checking out Mental Freedom, now is the time. The price of this group coaching package will double after this group. Even if you can't make the dates, get on the waitlist to lock in the current pricing. Learn more at therelationshipcenter.biz/coaching/mf-groupcoaching/. #mentalfreedom #choicetheory #LastChanceOffer ...
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In this episode, I interview Jhmira Alexander about her work with Public Narrative, the concept of #whiteprivilege, and the idea that the solution will involve investment in communities of color and white people being willing to take a look at systemic barriers to success.Listen in at >> life-choices.captivate.fm/episode/privilege-jhmira-alexander.#diversity #inclusionmatters #equity #whiteprivilege #diversityandinclusion #diversitymatters #BlackLivesMatters #BlackLives #conversations #inclusionrevolution #whiteprivilegeisreal #kimolver #publicnarrative ...
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2020: Lessons Learned

2020: Lessons Learned

2020 was a helluva year. Most people are looking forward to 2021 so they can put 2020 in their rearview mirror. I don’t blame them… I’m ready to leave 2020 in the dust also, but not before I examine the year for lessons learned because there were many. Most of you who...

COVID and the Holidays

COVID and the Holidays

There’s two days until Christmas, so it’s likely you’ve already made your holiday plans. The CDC, Dr. Fauci and many politicians and leaders are advocating staying home for the holidays. This is a challenging situation and one that, at least in the US, has been left...

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What are people saying...

I really appreciate you and what you are doing for this world. It has truly inspired me. I started Choice Theory thinking that it is just another theory to learn. Instead it has put me on a journey to self discovery and more. It feels like a roller coaster ride and the past 4 days has shown me how to enjoy that ride. It would not have been possible without having gone through a great and empowering training with you.


Relationships are difficult and in those tough times , Kim’s insight and wisdom have helped me to become the parent, husband, and friend that I want to be. It is a blessing to have someone that provides you the balance you need to evolve. I now realize that it’s not about being who “they” want you to be but being the best YOU that you can be…Thanks Kim!


"For me, reading 'Choosing Me Now' was tantamount to spending a much needed weekend with a good friend who had my back. It brought me back to the important stuff with such gentleness and I've left more connected and more on my own side than I've been in a long time. Exactly the kind of friend I needed right now. Thank you Kim!"

Jo Watson, Birmingham, UK

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