by Kim Olver | May 17, 2017 | Grief and Loss, Relationships
When your spouse has had an affair, it can be a serious trauma for you. People who have experienced this betrayal need to seriously consider whether or not the benefits of their marriage outweigh the effort involved in moving beyond the affair. If you have been the... by Kim Olver | May 5, 2017 | Relationships
The most common problem couples face are variations of two main topics. 1) Couples are forever attempting to “get” their partners to do, think and be the way they want them to be. 2) Individuals are selfishly thinking about what they want in their... by Kim Olver | Jun 15, 2012 | Relationships
One of the things that keeps coming up with the couples I talk to is the natural tendency to want to give what we would most like to get instead of what the other person would want in that situation. I’m not talking about material gifts here; I’m talking... by Kim Olver | Mar 28, 2012 | Grief and Loss, Relationships, Self-growth
When you understand that everyone is doing the very best they can to get the things you want, then there is no need for a drama-filled break up. Why do people break up? Sometimes it’s because of a revelation and sometimes it’s slow building. When it happens because of... 
